How to network when you hate networking – 7 networking tips

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Some people HATE it. I know I used to.

When you’re starting up your business or want to grow your small business, you have to network.

Here are my 7 favourite networking tips I’ve used to overcome my networking phobia that I want to share with you, today.

1. Ask about something relevant to the occasion: “what brings you here?” or “what do you hope to get out of this event?”
2. Comment on a topic of general interest: I scan the news the day before the event for ideas
3. Ask questions people can answer how they please: the example given is “what’s keeping you busy”, also a question I like to ask
4. Ask open-ended questions that don’t elicit single-word answers
5. Ask getting-to-know-you questions like which media they consume. I once asked, “what do you want to be when you grow up?” Everyone responded enthusiastically. You can’t just blurt that one out though; you have to get a feel for the crowd.
6. Talk about their favorite topic instead of your own. Better still, find a topic of mutual interest.
7. Avoid the morning pre-conference  networking period, choosing instead to arrive on time for the first session. During the first break I asked people, “What did you think of that talk/ presentation?”

Everyone has an opinion and they like to be heard. Before you know it, people will gather around you. If you become a discussion facilitator, getting others to talk, it takes the pressure off you. Like I said, people absolutely love talking about themselves. And the funny thing is, people walk away thinking, “they were easy to talk to.”

People may not remember exactly what you did, or what you said, but they will always remember how you made them feel – Maya Angelou

So, don’t be afraid. Get out there,and get people talking about their favorite topic: them!

Your homework assignment for this week. Pick one tip from the list of 7, then get yourself along to a networking event this week and use that one tip. Then, come back and tell us how you got on in the comment box below.

Good luck and have a powerful week!